Thread:Dragonzeron/@comment-5737527-20140524232936/@comment-5737527-20141018002204

Because it's come up in the chat, I want to make something clear.

1. I don't hate you. Didn't before, don't now. I'm not even mad at you anymore. You've broken my trust, but I don't have a grudge.

2. I forgave you ages ago. But that doesn't mean we start over as if it never happened. I know your tendencies and my own, and I am not going to open up to you and risk getting harassed again. Apologies are always nice to get, but they're not get-out-of-jail-free cards. I've been through this cycle with you a few times, and I know that it'll take more than this for you to change your habits.

Just...move past this. I don't resent you, and I seriously hope for the best for you in the future. Focus on actually doing things different in the future, not obsessing over what you did in the past and spiraling into morbid introspection. All the apologies in the world mean nothing if you don't change the flaws that made you need to apologize in the first place. You can't change by constantly going back and pleading for a do-over or talking about what a horrible person you are/were. It's not a healthy route.

Nobody gets do-overs. Just move on to something better. I've been trying to avoid the mistakes I made with you since the block. Trying to avoid your old mistakes too might help you not alienate new friends.

I'll be (and have been) praying for you, JC

Thantosiet (talk) 00:22, October 18, 2014 (UTC)